Language as the Key

In the beginning was the Word

You're all familiar with this statement, and yet language is usually treated as a mere afterthought—a necessary accessory. We just talk about it without being aware of what it means.

The good news: Through language—through the “W” words—we can find our place. Language can empower or diminish us—and others! Our words determine success or failure. Language creates reality! Through concepts, we can grasp things, and our ideas become tangible for others as well.

People in positions of authority understand the power of the images behind the words; we use them to invite others in or shut them out, and to solidify our success or our failure. So how can we harness this power in our everyday lives?

Language is a helpful tool given to us as human beings. Through language, we give. Giving requires that we open ourselves up; in this way, we can express ourselves, share with others, and thereby grow. When we unlock the potential of language, it becomes the foundation for a seed that sprouts well.

A few examples

Then let's play along 😉

As the saying goes , “Every beginning is hard.” Before we begin, we need a special kind of strength. This strength comes from gathering our thoughts—in a sense, reining ourselves in. Worries drain our energy, and as long as I’m preoccupied with worry, I lack the time to act responsibly. The very word “provision” implies that a major concern will follow, and that we are far from being set for life. Thus, the cycle of worry continues.

We find pleasant things pleasant because we have accepted them, and—the unpleasant things, the things we can’t process ourselves—we pass them on like a hot potato.

Those who, on the other hand, see possibilities begin to find peace within themselves again. They create space and expand, because they spring from affection—that is, from love.

So let’s learn to “er-innern” again—just as “remember” means to be part of a whole once more. Let’s draw inspiration from our efforts; perhaps the most effective effort doesn’t require many words, but just one sentence.

Those who justify themselves are soon done for; those who complain make things hard for themselves. In contrast, reflection is a tool for healing and self-awareness. We heal one another; the longing expressed in “I like you” becomes “I am like you” and helps us rediscover the red thread of life that connects everything.

Practical Tips

Play with words; recognize the magic within them (for example, the word “erinnern” [to remember] contains “er-innern,” meaning that remembering takes place within). Let’s choose our words carefully rather than letting them choose us, and let’s recognize the resonance within them.
Create a positive atmosphere with simple, positive words—for example, use “Aktion Mensch” instead of “Aktion Sorgenkind,” and “Lösungstango” instead of “Krisensitzung.”
A Visa to Life: Rediscover your dreams for life and draw on love and enthusiasm as sources of strength. Your greatest resource—so return to the source (and a source is meant to flow)—is yourself.

I wish you wonderful defining moments.

Norbert Withalm, M.A.